I need your help please

I’ve had such a sensational response over the past 14 months to my Curvy Girl’s Guide to Shopping in Melbourne. THANK YOU to everyone who has purchased a copy, and a special thank you to those who have taken the time to feedback to me your experiences with using the guide.

Recently I communicated that I am planning to put together a plus-size directory in the form of a smart phone app. Unfortunately, this has proven to be not as easy as I’d hoped :-( (BIG sad face!). But, being the type of gal who won’t let a simple “too hard” stop me, I’m ploughing ahead and with lots of feedback via the survey I sent around (thanks to everyone who responded!), and the super positive and popular response I’ve had to the e-book directory, the decision was easy, so I’m going for it!

It’s time to expand and I’m thrilled to announce that in early 2015 I will be publishing the 1st edition of UNITED CURVES – The Curvy Girl’s Guide to Shopping in Australia, and in mid-2015 (fingers crossed!) UNITED Curves – The Curvy Girl’s Guide to Shopping Worldwide will shortly follow!

UnitedCurvesLogoForWebsiteIt’s a lot of work to compile these guides, but just like me, many of you have spent hours and hours of your precious time googling and trawling through websites looking for curvy clothes, shoes, accessories and services. These guides take all the hard work out of it, as everything is in one place!

I NEED YOUR HELP to ensure that I’ve captured as much as humanly possible, so here’s what I need… please, please, please pass on these details to businesses, designers, bloggers, websites, boutiques… anything that is related to plus-size and ask them (or do it for them) to submit their request for a listing in the upcoming guides. I’m never going to get *everything* and of course the nature of this business is that businesses are evolving, dissolving and growing all over the place, so it’s a never ending challenge, but I’m determined to do my best!

Here’s the links you need:

DETAILS ON THE UNITED CURVES PLUS SIZE DIRECTORIES

SUBMIT A DIRECTORY LISTING REQUEST

ADVERTISING OPPORTUNITIES IN UNITED CURVES

Thanks so much,

Love your shape!

Janine x

 

Haute Couture… my experience

Every girl has an image in her head of that special dress for her special day. When Pete proposed to me on my 40th birthday in July 2011, I suddenly I realised I had to start thinking about what MY special dress would be? Our plan was for an intimate wedding with close family & friends, in the bush in Western Australia. What style of dress will best reflect me and our marriage?

I started googling dresses, typing in the words “plus size wedding dresses” bought up thousands of options, but as I scanned the images hopeful for some inspiration I didn’t see one dress that looked like ME.

I was keen to have a more relaxed, less formal style dress, I knew I wanted some type of lace detail and I was keen for it to be white, but I wanted something say, boho. So I started googling BohOriginal Ideao wedding dresses.  This image caught my eye. I loved the casual cool cotton with relaxed detail, chic and beautiful, but relaxed. Obviously the dress was designed with a non-plus-size figure in mind, but my mind was adapting the feel and working out how to apply it to myself and what would work for me.

I was grateful for the kind offers of a dress from many Australian plus-size retailers and brands, very grateful. But to be honest, none of the designs were what I wanted for ME.

Then suddenly it hit me, I needed to have my dress made, for my body. Mmmm, took me a while! So I made a call to my girls at Hope & Harvest. Now most of you will know Hope & Harvest have their own amazing plus-size designs, but I was really asking a huge favour, would they do me the honour of designing a dress just for me?

A phone call later and the gorgeous Harvest was almost more excited than me that we were designing a dress together! YAY!

The first step was to share the images I had sought with the girls, and we talked about roughly what I was hoping to achieve. The wheels were in motion and the excitement was building.

Step two was to select the material. I had already decided that I wanted a simple white cotton for the main part of the dress but I was looking for some lace embellishment to make it special. Harvest & Ainsley met me at Clegs in Brunswick one warm Melbourne morning in April and we spent a lovely morning exploring the options.

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Ainsley holding up the lace I chose.

Funny thing is, during this process of choosing material, the original design I’d had in my head had already started to morph into something else. I remember I had butterflies during the whole morning, it was really difficult to pick fabrics for my idea, to be honest, I didn’t even know if it was going to look good on me or not.

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Harvest explaining to me the options within our design with this lace

Reflecting on this whilst I was walking around Clegs, I realised something. When you walk into a store there are usually more than 2 garments you are attracted to and want to try on. Often, I try them all on, and often the one I thought would suit is the one that didn’t or vice versa! So to be smack bang in the middle of a process that was making a dress from an image of a dress style I’d NEVER tried on was really a little crazy! I started to relax a little and went with my gut. Harvest was amazing, she truly understood what feel I was after, and she understood my body shape. Even more impressive (and I wasn’t to truly understand this til further down the process), Harvest has an incredible talent for haute couture, it’s like the design just flows out of her.  The lace I chose that day was calling to me, I fell in love with it, and it became the foundation of the design with the dress evolving around it.

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With my lace – very excited!

There was plenty of time, so we planned the next stage. I would visit H&H HQ for my first fitting a week later.

The first fitting day was quite an experience, not only was it FREEZING COLD, but I really didn’t know what to expect. When I arrived, the girls had made a “toile”, which is the beginning point of a Haute Couture design where you make a “test garment” sewn from the same material. The toile was hanging on a hanger, it looked like a bag or sack with pieces of cotton loosely threaded at different points around the pieces. Quite confusing for someone who had never been through this process before.

I peeled off my warm clothes and subjected myself to the elements. Goose bumps appeared – not only because I was cold but because I was nervous! Don’t get me wrong, these girls are amazing, and I KNOW that they knew exactly what I was after, but I just couldn’t get my mind around this sack of material turning into the dress I had imagined!

Trust the process I kept telling myself… and boy am I glad I did.

The process was amazing. In front of a mirror, the talented hands of Harvest fluttered around me as she placed, pulled and prodded the material into place around me. We tried this and that, gathered, ungathered etc. and finally we all agreed that this wasn’t it! Slowly, I began to see in front of me, with the help of this toile and the talents of two amazing designers, what would look great on me and so in front of my eyes the design evolved into something completely different! I went from wanting an unstructured dress with a boho feel, to a very structured dress with a boho feel! I GOT IT! This process of Haute Couture although quite scary, was truly remarkable. Harvest worked tirelessly and seemingly effortlessly to draw all over the toile and pin here and there, until she was satisfied. Then it was quite an effort to get out of the toile without pricking myself! Reassuringly, the girls told me they’d work their magic and see me in two weeks!

Visit three saw me arrive to a more complete toile, which was sewn in the structured design we’d come up with. I was amazed at how a sack with lots of pins and pen marks had been transformed into a toile that fit like a glove! I turned toward the mirror and realised this was IT! Hooray, the design was taking shape. I gave the ok to go ahead and MAKE the dress! That felt incredible. The next step was to work the lace into the dress once the base was complete.

Fitting four took place the morning after my Hen’s Night. We were all very tired but excited to weave some magic with the lace.

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Harvest working on the sleeve with the lace. This part of the process was all about looking at what worked and how I felt.

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Harvest & Ainsley working on applying the lace to the skirt. I just LOVE how they made it flatter me, there was a beautiful “tail” at the back where the lace kicked out, and it draped over my hips to a point at the base of my back.

WOW, This was looking amazing. I was so excited, and couldn’t believe how different, yet how perfect this had all come together. Off the girls went with my dress pinned and ready to be completed.

The final stage was another visit to H&H HQ where we had the big reveal.

One of the important steps to having a dress that is made well and fits well is to chose correctly fitted foundation undergarments. I did a lot of research on foundation undergarments and spent a lot of time trying to find the right fit for me. In desperation I even purchased two control wear garments online from overseas, but when these arrived I had to contort myself into such strange positions to get them on that I just knew that that wasn’t going to cut the mustard! Interestingly, even after visiting some specialist stores I still couldn’t find THE perfect fit – that was until I visited my local Autograph store. I know right, not where I was expecting to find what I was looking for in undergarments, but I was wrong. I’m happy to say that I found exactly what I needed and left the store with a beautifully fitted Rita Lace Underwire Bra in Pearl (oh and I bought one in red too because I loved it so much – but that was for the honeymoon!), and the Essentials Panty Girdle in Café. Now I ummed and ahhed about the Girdle as I just think it’s not that attractive right? But I hate having separate garments with shapewear, I’m a bodysuit girl (but that’s another story). The Girdle is beautifully made, very comfortable and the wide elastic silicone trim on the waist sat perfectly under my bust and bra band and didn’t roll, not even once (and the lace detail at the top of the leg made it feel a little less ugly)! It felt as though I was wearing a bodysuit and it worked well to create a great silhouette under my dress. So for me, this combination worked a treat and added value to my dream dress. Having the foundations in place BEFORE building the dress was an important part of the process.

Two weeks before our wedding I very excitedly drove to H&H HQ and picked up my dress. The feeling I had when the girls helped me put it over my head and zip it into place is indescribable! We put everything into place and then I turned around and looked into the mirror – HOORAY! I felt amazing, I felt beautiful, this was my dream dress! All three of us cheered and hugged with tears of joy.

 
Ainsley, Harvest and I celebrating – the finished product!

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Mum gifted me a beautiful citrine & diamond pendant for my birthday this year, it’s just stunning, exactly the same setting as my engagement ring but it’s oval instead of diamond shaped. I found my string of pearls and the pendant clipped perfectly into place, the most gorgeous adornment for my dress.

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The beautiful pendant given to me by my mum for my birthday and as a wedding gift.

Flash forward to our special day, surrounded by family & friends, I walked down the “bush” aisle with my gorgeous son Zac and beautiful mum Dianne, I felt amazing, special, beautiful, curvy and loved, but most of all HAPPY. I did my own hair & make-up (and after many hair trials with curls, and all sorts of do-dahs, I decided I wanted to look like ME so I went for my usual style!).

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Entering the ceremony walking down the aisle with my son Zac and mum – so happy! (Image by David Entz)

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I loved the detail of the tail of my dress! We stood in a heart shaped with rose petals (Image by David Entz)

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Married to my Superman Pete and wearing “Janine” by Hope & Harvest, Dryandra Village, Western Australia 14th September, 2013.  My bouquet was specially made for me by my sister-in-law Donna out of native flowers from my parents-in-laws’ garden. My shoes were purchased on e-bay and are Beige Leather Bernardo Farfalla – just loved them! – Perfect x (Image by David Entz)

I feel so lucky to have had the opportunity to have such an amazing wedding dress made just for me. THANK YOU Harvest & Ainsley, you were both incredibly amazing during this whole process and I am forever grateful for the experience and honour of wearing one of your designs.

Thank you.

Love your shape!

Janine x

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Curvy Couture comes to Perth…

Great news for curvy ladies of Western Australia!

Kate Millett of Bombshell Vintage offers a plus sized day of entertainment for Perth’s curvy connoisseurs of couture.

September 15th, 2013 will see the first ever Curvy Couture Roadshow, a one-day plus size fashion festival organised by Perth-born Kate Millett. Galvanised by her personal motto “Dress for your style, not your size”, Millett has been splashing plus size style all over eager audiences for years behind Australia’s own exclusively plus size vintage label, Bombshell Vintage, which is now expanding to offer its own reproduction range.

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The roadshow, taking place at Deville’s Pad in Perth, will showcase select Australian indie designers that specialise in sizes 12 and up, in a day of catwalks, capsule markets, and stellar entertainment; including a photo booth, nail art salon, best-dressed competitions, and a contortionist.

Kate was inspired to create the Curvy Couture Roadshow as she was looking through the different fashion festivals in Australia and kept seeing a total lack of plus size designers over and over again. A few times, chain stores got a catwalk, but that was it.

“I am such a fan of interesting and exciting fashion and I especially love it when I can get it locally! So I decided that while the mainstream fashion world is ignoring us, we can do our own thing and celebrate some of the amazing plus size designers from all over Australia”.

Through her work with Bombshell Vintage, Kate had met a few Australian plus size designers. She began talking to a few of them, asked them to talk to whoever they knew and they formed a small Facebook group. Once the preparations had begun to create the event and word spread, a few new designers came out of the woodwork and have joined the team.

Kate says “The Roadshow is an opportunity to have fun, shop and see the clothes on the catwalk. All our models are volunteers ranging from size 12 to size 24. There should be something for every taste, from simple day wear to bikinis to full length beaded ballgowns! (I am a huge fan of sparkles!) There will be a capsule market with limited styles and sizes so people can try things on and then order online. With five catwalks in as many hours, there shouldn’t be much time for other entertainment, but we squeezed in a set by the Odette Mercy trio. There will also be a photo booth and a pop-up nail salon”.

“There will be competitions running throughout the day for best hair, best dressed and best overall! We want to celebrate curvy ladies who work their fashion and look extra special!”

Kate is originally from Perth and remembers how isolated it felt not to see any stores other than the giant chains that stocked her size. Perth is often overlooked because of the expense to fly designers and stock over for events, so Perth was a natural option for her 1st event.

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Among the designers on display are beloved Perth designer Seraphim, who is known for creating styles that are unique and sexy and cater to the bold, loud and fierce women; and treasured Melbourne designers Harlow, and Fox Parse. Harlow produce fashion-forward edgy designs with a rock ‘n’ roll influence, and each design reflects its belief that fashion should be accessible to all women. Fox Parse is heavily influenced by mod fashion and comic books, mixing bright dresses with fabulous custom made collars. Beyond the Sea Swimwear from Sydney is inspired by the glamour of 1940’s and 50’s; this flattering and fun range of Australian Made swimwear with a vintage twist is designed for the average Australian woman.

The event is being crowdfunded through iPledg, leaving room for rapid expansion, so get on board and support this fantastic initiative.

Tickets for the event are $30 and available at curvycoutureroadshow.eventbrite.com. The crowdfunding campaign is available for contribution (with rewards relating to free entry and giveaways) at iPledg at http://ipledg.com/l/curvy-couture-roadshow.

Event Details:

Sunday 15th September, 2013

12 noon – 5pm

Curvy Couture Roadshow

Devilles Pad

1/3 Aberdeen Street, PERTH, WA

 

Ladies, I urge you to support Australian Designers. Please tell them I sent you. I’d love your feedback on the event.

Love your shape!

Janine x