Haute Couture… my experience

Every girl has an image in her head of that special dress for her special day. When Pete proposed to me on my 40th birthday in July 2011, I suddenly I realised I had to start thinking about what MY special dress would be? Our plan was for an intimate wedding with close family & friends, in the bush in Western Australia. What style of dress will best reflect me and our marriage?

I started googling dresses, typing in the words “plus size wedding dresses” bought up thousands of options, but as I scanned the images hopeful for some inspiration I didn’t see one dress that looked like ME.

I was keen to have a more relaxed, less formal style dress, I knew I wanted some type of lace detail and I was keen for it to be white, but I wanted something say, boho. So I started googling BohOriginal Ideao wedding dresses.  This image caught my eye. I loved the casual cool cotton with relaxed detail, chic and beautiful, but relaxed. Obviously the dress was designed with a non-plus-size figure in mind, but my mind was adapting the feel and working out how to apply it to myself and what would work for me.

I was grateful for the kind offers of a dress from many Australian plus-size retailers and brands, very grateful. But to be honest, none of the designs were what I wanted for ME.

Then suddenly it hit me, I needed to have my dress made, for my body. Mmmm, took me a while! So I made a call to my girls at Hope & Harvest. Now most of you will know Hope & Harvest have their own amazing plus-size designs, but I was really asking a huge favour, would they do me the honour of designing a dress just for me?

A phone call later and the gorgeous Harvest was almost more excited than me that we were designing a dress together! YAY!

The first step was to share the images I had sought with the girls, and we talked about roughly what I was hoping to achieve. The wheels were in motion and the excitement was building.

Step two was to select the material. I had already decided that I wanted a simple white cotton for the main part of the dress but I was looking for some lace embellishment to make it special. Harvest & Ainsley met me at Clegs in Brunswick one warm Melbourne morning in April and we spent a lovely morning exploring the options.

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Ainsley holding up the lace I chose.

Funny thing is, during this process of choosing material, the original design I’d had in my head had already started to morph into something else. I remember I had butterflies during the whole morning, it was really difficult to pick fabrics for my idea, to be honest, I didn’t even know if it was going to look good on me or not.

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Harvest explaining to me the options within our design with this lace

Reflecting on this whilst I was walking around Clegs, I realised something. When you walk into a store there are usually more than 2 garments you are attracted to and want to try on. Often, I try them all on, and often the one I thought would suit is the one that didn’t or vice versa! So to be smack bang in the middle of a process that was making a dress from an image of a dress style I’d NEVER tried on was really a little crazy! I started to relax a little and went with my gut. Harvest was amazing, she truly understood what feel I was after, and she understood my body shape. Even more impressive (and I wasn’t to truly understand this til further down the process), Harvest has an incredible talent for haute couture, it’s like the design just flows out of her.  The lace I chose that day was calling to me, I fell in love with it, and it became the foundation of the design with the dress evolving around it.

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With my lace – very excited!

There was plenty of time, so we planned the next stage. I would visit H&H HQ for my first fitting a week later.

The first fitting day was quite an experience, not only was it FREEZING COLD, but I really didn’t know what to expect. When I arrived, the girls had made a “toile”, which is the beginning point of a Haute Couture design where you make a “test garment” sewn from the same material. The toile was hanging on a hanger, it looked like a bag or sack with pieces of cotton loosely threaded at different points around the pieces. Quite confusing for someone who had never been through this process before.

I peeled off my warm clothes and subjected myself to the elements. Goose bumps appeared - not only because I was cold but because I was nervous! Don’t get me wrong, these girls are amazing, and I KNOW that they knew exactly what I was after, but I just couldn’t get my mind around this sack of material turning into the dress I had imagined!

Trust the process I kept telling myself… and boy am I glad I did.

The process was amazing. In front of a mirror, the talented hands of Harvest fluttered around me as she placed, pulled and prodded the material into place around me. We tried this and that, gathered, ungathered etc. and finally we all agreed that this wasn’t it! Slowly, I began to see in front of me, with the help of this toile and the talents of two amazing designers, what would look great on me and so in front of my eyes the design evolved into something completely different! I went from wanting an unstructured dress with a boho feel, to a very structured dress with a boho feel! I GOT IT! This process of Haute Couture although quite scary, was truly remarkable. Harvest worked tirelessly and seemingly effortlessly to draw all over the toile and pin here and there, until she was satisfied. Then it was quite an effort to get out of the toile without pricking myself! Reassuringly, the girls told me they’d work their magic and see me in two weeks!

Visit three saw me arrive to a more complete toile, which was sewn in the structured design we’d come up with. I was amazed at how a sack with lots of pins and pen marks had been transformed into a toile that fit like a glove! I turned toward the mirror and realised this was IT! Hooray, the design was taking shape. I gave the ok to go ahead and MAKE the dress! That felt incredible. The next step was to work the lace into the dress once the base was complete.

Fitting four took place the morning after my Hen’s Night. We were all very tired but excited to weave some magic with the lace.

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Harvest working on the sleeve with the lace. This part of the process was all about looking at what worked and how I felt.

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Harvest & Ainsley working on applying the lace to the skirt. I just LOVE how they made it flatter me, there was a beautiful “tail” at the back where the lace kicked out, and it draped over my hips to a point at the base of my back.

WOW, This was looking amazing. I was so excited, and couldn’t believe how different, yet how perfect this had all come together. Off the girls went with my dress pinned and ready to be completed.

The final stage was another visit to H&H HQ where we had the big reveal.

One of the important steps to having a dress that is made well and fits well is to chose correctly fitted foundation undergarments. I did a lot of research on foundation undergarments and spent a lot of time trying to find the right fit for me. In desperation I even purchased two control wear garments online from overseas, but when these arrived I had to contort myself into such strange positions to get them on that I just knew that that wasn’t going to cut the mustard! Interestingly, even after visiting some specialist stores I still couldn’t find THE perfect fit - that was until I visited my local Autograph store. I know right, not where I was expecting to find what I was looking for in undergarments, but I was wrong. I’m happy to say that I found exactly what I needed and left the store with a beautifully fitted Rita Lace Underwire Bra in Pearl (oh and I bought one in red too because I loved it so much – but that was for the honeymoon!), and the Essentials Panty Girdle in Café. Now I ummed and ahhed about the Girdle as I just think it’s not that attractive right? But I hate having separate garments with shapewear, I’m a bodysuit girl (but that’s another story). The Girdle is beautifully made, very comfortable and the wide elastic silicone trim on the waist sat perfectly under my bust and bra band and didn’t roll, not even once (and the lace detail at the top of the leg made it feel a little less ugly)! It felt as though I was wearing a bodysuit and it worked well to create a great silhouette under my dress. So for me, this combination worked a treat and added value to my dream dress. Having the foundations in place BEFORE building the dress was an important part of the process.

Two weeks before our wedding I very excitedly drove to H&H HQ and picked up my dress. The feeling I had when the girls helped me put it over my head and zip it into place is indescribable! We put everything into place and then I turned around and looked into the mirror – HOORAY! I felt amazing, I felt beautiful, this was my dream dress! All three of us cheered and hugged with tears of joy.

 
Ainsley, Harvest and I celebrating – the finished product!

JANINE WED

Mum gifted me a beautiful citrine & diamond pendant for my birthday this year, it’s just stunning, exactly the same setting as my engagement ring but it’s oval instead of diamond shaped. I found my string of pearls and the pendant clipped perfectly into place, the most gorgeous adornment for my dress.

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The beautiful pendant given to me by my mum for my birthday and as a wedding gift.

Flash forward to our special day, surrounded by family & friends, I walked down the “bush” aisle with my gorgeous son Zac and beautiful mum Dianne, I felt amazing, special, beautiful, curvy and loved, but most of all HAPPY. I did my own hair & make-up (and after many hair trials with curls, and all sorts of do-dahs, I decided I wanted to look like ME so I went for my usual style!).

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Entering the ceremony walking down the aisle with my son Zac and mum – so happy! (Image by David Entz)

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I loved the detail of the tail of my dress! We stood in a heart shaped with rose petals (Image by David Entz)

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Married to my Superman Pete and wearing “Janine” by Hope & Harvest, Dryandra Village, Western Australia 14th September, 2013.  My bouquet was specially made for me by my sister-in-law Donna out of native flowers from my parents-in-laws’ garden. My shoes were purchased on e-bay and are Beige Leather Bernardo Farfalla - just loved them! - Perfect x (Image by David Entz)

I feel so lucky to have had the opportunity to have such an amazing wedding dress made just for me. THANK YOU Harvest & Ainsley, you were both incredibly amazing during this whole process and I am forever grateful for the experience and honour of wearing one of your designs.

Thank you.

Love your shape!

Janine x

Are you a curvy bride? Here’s my top 6 tips for brides to be…

TOP 10 Things to consider when shopping for clothing for your curves…

A carefully edited wardrobe will simplify your life and help you create a look all of your own! But before you hit the shops, it’s important to consider these points:

  1. WHAT TO BUY: It’s a good idea to shop in your own wardrobe BEFORE you hit the shops. Many women wear 20% of their clothes 80% of the time! So the balance of clothing that is in your wardrobe you’ve probably forgotten about or haven’t considered for a while. Once you’ve shopped in your own wardrobe, you can establish a list of “Must Haves” and you’ve got a plan on what you need and how much it may cost. Need some help?
  2. WHERE TO BUY: Always remember that there ARE lots of options for plus-size clothing. Do not be duped into thinking that what you see at your local Westfield is all that is on offer, it’s not true! My Curvy Girl’s Shopping Guide is a great resource.
  3. GOOD FOUNDATIONS: Nothing is going to look good on your figure if you don’t have the right undergarments. A correctly fitted bra is crucial as is an appropriate pair of underwear that allows the garments you choose to shine (without seeing your panty line or creating a muffin top). I recommend a bra fitting at least once a year. Every woman’s body changes as we mature. Invest in correctly fitted foundations and you’re half way to a wonderful silhouette.
  4. THE FIT: Is crucial. Don’t be tricked into buying a garment that is ill fitting because it is the only one of what you want that you can find in your size. The fit of a garment makes it or breaks it. Look for garments that flatter your curves without tugging or pulling, and that allows your body to breath comfortably.
  5. LONGEVITY OF THE GARMENT: Always consider the quality of the fabric and the construction of the garments you are buying. There’s no point buying the “perfect” dress if it is made of a fabric which makes you sweat and feel sticky and hot.
  6. WHO YOU SHOP WITH: is crucial! If you’re in a hurry or you’re with someone who is impatient or not invested in giving you honest and real advice, you a more likely to make poor purchase decisions. Set aside time to shop for your wardrobe in a structured and calm timeframe, this will reap positive results. Need a shopping buddy?
  7. HOW MUCH TO SPEND: It’s easy to be blinded by a bargain – but seemingly cheap garments are not always a good investment. I’ve been caught out too many times buying a great fitting t-shirt for $6 only to find that it is ruined after one wash! Invest in quality and you will enjoy your garments for years to come.
  8. ESTABLISH YOUR OWN STYLE: Don’t be overwhelmed by current trends, it’s easy to feel like we’re not “trendy” if we’re not wearing the latest and greatest, but let’s face it, not everyone looks great in bright yellow and black! (I certainly don’t). It’s important to establish your own style, make it unique and let it reflect your personality. Choose garments that add value to your image and flatter your body shape, whilst staying true to what you love. For me it’s vests, jeans and lots of accessories with a bit of a boho feel. Don’t be afraid to experiment, but don’t be fooled into thinking that you must be wearing the latest trends to look great. This is simply not true.
  9. IGNORE THE MYTHS: Curvy girls shouldn’t wear stripes! NOT! This is a myth. I encourage you to ignore the myths, like everything else in life, each individual has something different that works for them. The same applies to bodies, we are all unique, and different things look good on different people. I dispell the myths of plus-size fashion here.
  10. THE SECRET INGREDIENT: Of course you can have the most amazing outfit, perfectly fitted, great quality but if you don’t have the body confidence to go with it you’re missing the secret ingredient. How we feel about ourselves is mirrored in our eyes and in our body language. Always check your self-talk, you are beautiful, love and appreciate your unique body, there is no other like you and love your shape!

Personal Shopping with Janine Mison

And one last thing, don’t underestimate a garment – sometimes a garment doesn’t have “hanger appeal” but looks great on your curves!

Love your shape!

Janine x

Curvy Couture comes to Perth…

Great news for curvy ladies of Western Australia!

Kate Millett of Bombshell Vintage offers a plus sized day of entertainment for Perth’s curvy connoisseurs of couture.

September 15th, 2013 will see the first ever Curvy Couture Roadshow, a one-day plus size fashion festival organised by Perth-born Kate Millett. Galvanised by her personal motto “Dress for your style, not your size”, Millett has been splashing plus size style all over eager audiences for years behind Australia’s own exclusively plus size vintage label, Bombshell Vintage, which is now expanding to offer its own reproduction range.

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The roadshow, taking place at Deville’s Pad in Perth, will showcase select Australian indie designers that specialise in sizes 12 and up, in a day of catwalks, capsule markets, and stellar entertainment; including a photo booth, nail art salon, best-dressed competitions, and a contortionist.

Kate was inspired to create the Curvy Couture Roadshow as she was looking through the different fashion festivals in Australia and kept seeing a total lack of plus size designers over and over again. A few times, chain stores got a catwalk, but that was it.

“I am such a fan of interesting and exciting fashion and I especially love it when I can get it locally! So I decided that while the mainstream fashion world is ignoring us, we can do our own thing and celebrate some of the amazing plus size designers from all over Australia”.

Through her work with Bombshell Vintage, Kate had met a few Australian plus size designers. She began talking to a few of them, asked them to talk to whoever they knew and they formed a small Facebook group. Once the preparations had begun to create the event and word spread, a few new designers came out of the woodwork and have joined the team.

Kate says “The Roadshow is an opportunity to have fun, shop and see the clothes on the catwalk. All our models are volunteers ranging from size 12 to size 24. There should be something for every taste, from simple day wear to bikinis to full length beaded ballgowns! (I am a huge fan of sparkles!) There will be a capsule market with limited styles and sizes so people can try things on and then order online. With five catwalks in as many hours, there shouldn’t be much time for other entertainment, but we squeezed in a set by the Odette Mercy trio. There will also be a photo booth and a pop-up nail salon”.

“There will be competitions running throughout the day for best hair, best dressed and best overall! We want to celebrate curvy ladies who work their fashion and look extra special!”

Kate is originally from Perth and remembers how isolated it felt not to see any stores other than the giant chains that stocked her size. Perth is often overlooked because of the expense to fly designers and stock over for events, so Perth was a natural option for her 1st event.

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Among the designers on display are beloved Perth designer Seraphim, who is known for creating styles that are unique and sexy and cater to the bold, loud and fierce women; and treasured Melbourne designers Harlow, and Fox Parse. Harlow produce fashion-forward edgy designs with a rock ‘n’ roll influence, and each design reflects its belief that fashion should be accessible to all women. Fox Parse is heavily influenced by mod fashion and comic books, mixing bright dresses with fabulous custom made collars. Beyond the Sea Swimwear from Sydney is inspired by the glamour of 1940’s and 50’s; this flattering and fun range of Australian Made swimwear with a vintage twist is designed for the average Australian woman.

The event is being crowdfunded through iPledg, leaving room for rapid expansion, so get on board and support this fantastic initiative.

Tickets for the event are $30 and available at curvycoutureroadshow.eventbrite.com. The crowdfunding campaign is available for contribution (with rewards relating to free entry and giveaways) at iPledg at http://ipledg.com/l/curvy-couture-roadshow.

Event Details:

Sunday 15th September, 2013

12 noon – 5pm

Curvy Couture Roadshow

Devilles Pad

1/3 Aberdeen Street, PERTH, WA

 

Ladies, I urge you to support Australian Designers. Please tell them I sent you. I’d love your feedback on the event.

Love your shape!

Janine x